THE ART OF EXPRESSION

I don’t know if it’s just me but most people have very weird kinds of expressing oneself. I have observed for quite a while that people in Nairobi more often than not act as if pissed for one reason or another.
It is also said that that those who get angry do not live for very long…….which I think is true because you cannot live a life with so much bile. It all boils down to the way we express ourselves to one another. I prefer people who are forthright and tell it as it is rather than beating around the bush. I have dealt with people trying to play psycho on me and trust me it’s not funny. You will not realize when someone is trying to size you up……but when you do you are left with a bad taste in your mouth.
You succeed in life if you are extremely daft or extremely smart……..you will never go wrong with those two extremes because it leaves one wondering what really wondering…..leaving people to wonder what kind of design this is> make you want to rewind whatever happened.
Witty remarks come from people who are smart. More commonly it’s used as a way to degrade the average human beings……to show that you do not match up to their standards. Woe unto any individual that tries to contest such a duel because you end up with a bloody nose. A good option would be to act dumb for whatever it is worth. A good survivor knows which kinds of battles can be won……..keeping mum while someone goes on ranting in the office leave’s the one ranting feeling inadequate because he/she has not the wildest idea of what is going in your head.
The art of expressing is not only limited to verbal communication, try as much as possible to learn the non-verbal kind of communication. It comprises about 80% of all communication and a person who has acquired the art of perfecting this skill is light years ahead because you can avoid trouble when you see it coming. You can always feel negative energy when you observe somebody without even talking….if you started a conversation…..’I think I want to tell you something’………then you get this mean look from somebody…..better to retract or crack a joke to change the story.
Chatterers keep going on and on about a myriad of things and topics without ending. These kinds of people live for a longer time because they do not bottle in their emotions and are mostly happy. However I believe our creator had a mysterious way of balancing everything in this God’s green earth because if you caught a chatterer on a day that the moods are down……..you would get the ‘wrath of the math’. This is indeed a god thing because it makes you realize that nobody can be perfect and if life throws you lemons…..you try making lemonade out of it.
‘The silent one’ is shrouded in mystery and most of the time you do not know what is going through their mind. These ones are quite dangerous and you have to constantly encourage them to talk so as to get a bearing on what mind state on is…..it is good to be quiet but not all the time because life is made of color…..and you have to enjoy